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Epistle To The Boys: Rape by John Chizoba Vincent



Do not force any girl into your bed.  Do not make them groan and moan in tears for you.  Do not allow their blood to stain your bed preciously, these too have their rewards.  I will be of the opinion that you seek for a girl's love and attention. She will give it to you with a good heart. Forcing a girl into your bed is a sin against humanity.  Don't be taken by the pleasure that won't last for a life time,  no,  don't; for in them are the channels of the world.  I may not have words to describe women directly or indirectly but when I see them I know their worth and their weaknesses.

Rape is a type of sexual assault usually involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration carried out against a person without that person's consent. The act may be carried out by physical force, coercion, abuse of authority, or against a person who is incapable of giving valid consent, such as one who is unconscious, incapacitated, has an intellectual disability or is below the legal age of consent. The term rape  is sometimes used interchangeably with the term sexual assault. (Wikipedia)

Learn to control your libidos, learn to fear that which will kill you tomorrow. Learn to hold unto your svelte skin into the paradise of security. Women have their own emotions and feelings, they are not modern slaves to men.  I wrote to you last time on Domestic violence against women, I spoke to you conecerning how to hold them to your best.  To gain a woman's attention is to treat her like a woman and not a bag of bag. Treat women like they ought to be treated. Treat them right and those that don't value you as a man you should leave alone. When you see women, learn to respect them and treat them right.  Since you can not put your fingers in fire because of how it hurts, then you shouldn't put women's in fire.  We are all humans with flesh and blood.  Do not engage in premarital sex and do not rape a woman especailly girls, little girls that run to you as their uncle. Especially, those that confides in you and say their weaknesses to you. Do not be so wicked to put them in a family way.

The urge may come but do not go for it.  The urge might be tempting but do not go for it.  I have heard series of unfortunate stories of how a man of 60 years old raped a girl of 15 years and, a man of 50 raped a girl of 10, his daughter. I have heard and read alot about these incidents and they are very disappointing and disgusting to hear.  Remember also that there is a law in the country that kind against rape.  You may end up in prison once caught in the act.

Why rape your daughter whose lips speak of you?  Why rape your daughter whose date of birth you know?  Why rape your blood?  What would posterity think of you?  How would you face the world as a man? And those of you that rape your sisters,  what gain do you derive from the act? How can you face her eye to eye? Dont you know you lose your senses and integrity when you do that?  And those of you that wrote a painful memories on the skin of that maid in your house,  your reward shall be brutal. Yes,  your rewards shall be announced when it is dawn and all eyes are awake to behold your shameful act.

Dear boys,  guide your libidos, boyhood is not defined on how many girls you have slept with neither does Manhood is qualified by many women you made to cry out sorrowfully on your grip. Be yourself and let no person push you into performing this act of wickedness.  I will continue to write to you until this storm is over. Until the day we will sit together to break Kola in happiness and joy for boys of tomorrow and for boys like me and you who have made themselves proud.

©John Chizoba Vincent
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